Question : I am a teenager and I often feel nervous when it comes to interacting with girls. I have words and feelings that I would like to share but unable to comprehend them. Please help. Teentalker
Thank you so much for reaching out to us with your query. I want to assure you that we are here to help you to our best capacity. It must be so unnerving for you when you try to talk to someone of the opposite sex. This is also possible when one speaks with someone of the same sex. I can imagine that you must have so much to share with them but unsure of how to do it.
When you are interested in interacting with a girl, it is important that you believe in yourself and hold your self-confidence high. This will reflect in your actions which will become observable by the girl herself. Remember, you have a powerful mind which you can use to your benefit in becoming confident and strong. You are both human beings and interacting with another is just like interacting with your friend. It is completely normal to get caught up in your own thoughts and spiral in them. Try to break that cycle and take action. Remember, once you come around to doing it, you’ll know that you at least tried.
Give yourself a break and believe that you can’t overcome your shyness or nervousness in one instance. Keep practicing these strategies and over time your level of shyness will reduce. Additionally, being compassionate and caring goes a long way. We all like to be cared for. Use this to your advantage and offer compassion to anybody you interact with. Once you do this, they will also reciprocate and enjoy your company.
I hope this has been helpful. If you do need further assistance, please feel free to reach us again. You can also chat with us between 11am and 8pm.. Stay positive, stay strong!
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