Question : I am an 18-year-old girl and I am attracted to a 30-year-old married man. He said he likes me. He told me that he doesn’t love his wife. He proposed to me recently. Now I am confused about what I should do? Teentalker , 18-year-old
Thanks for reaching out and sharing your concern.
Having a crush, attracted to someone, falling in love or being in a relationship can be the best feeling in the world. However, before getting into a relationship you should always ask yourself “Why do you want to be in a relationship?” “Do you want to be in a short term relationship or long term relationship?” “Why does the man want to be in a relationship with you, when he already has a wife?” “Do you have any further plans about this relationship?”
Ideally, when we enter into a relationship we have some expectations from our partner. What do you think you expect from your partner and do you think your partner can fulfill your expectations? You need to think about these things before moving forward with this.
Also, many people might give you the advice of simply walking away and not to talk to that person but sudden avoidance can become an obsession. Instead, try to respect and accept your feelings and give yourself time.
Here are a few things which you can do –
– Focus your attention to something or someone else
– Remind yourself of his wife.
– Look for his flaws.
– Keep a comfortable distance from him
– Love yourself more.
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