Question : I had a friend. We are friends since childhood. I don’t know something happened and our friendship broke. Since then I am finding it difficult to overcome it. How to overcome a breakup with a childhood guy friend? Teentalker
Dear Teentalker,
Thanks for reaching out and sharing your concern.
Going through a break up can be difficult to be with a boyfriend or friend and so it’s alright to feel hurt, to get angry, get a little upset, all that is fine. But working hard to get over a break up is just as important. It takes time to deal with the devastation of losing someone you always thought you would have by your side. A few things that you can try now are –
- It is important to accept and acknowledge the feelings you are feeling right now and give yourself time to grieve.
- Always remember the fact that friendships don’t always last forever.
- Always remember the good memories you made together, cherish them. Don’t forget the bad one either, take them as life learnings and move forward.
- If you have friends who understand you and are close to you. try to share your feelings with them and talk it out.
- Don’t forget to appreciate the people who are with you in your tough times.
- Take up a new sport, or a new hobby where you can meet new people and make new friends but remember don’t pressure yourself to find a BFF ASAP.
- Listen to soft instrumental music and take a walk in the park or garden where there are green trees, it will help you to calm down.
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