Dear Teentalker,
Thanks for connecting with us. I can really understand your mental situation and how hard you are finding your life challenging.
Instead of kicking yourself, underrating and being so much self critical, stop for a while and evaluate your intrinsic resources, talents, potentials, creativity, interests and all the positives and have a glimpse of your other self. There are undiscovered, uncovered, untapped goodness and strengths that are waiting to be unleashed.
Everyone in this world comes with package of gifts from the creator, to glorify his name by doing he duties that we are chos.....
Dear Teentalker,
Thanks for connecting with us. I can really understand your mental situation and how hard you are finding your life challenging.
Instead of kicking yourself, underrating and being so much self critical, stop for a while and evaluate your intrinsic resources, talents, potentials, creativity, interests and all the positives and have a glimpse of your other self. There are undiscovered, uncovered, untapped goodness and strengths that are waiting to be unleashed.
Everyone in this world comes with package of gifts from the creator, to glorify his name by doing he duties that we are chosen to do and for which we are given the capabilities. So change the views about yourself, you are not what you label yourself to be, you now have to discover and start the adventure.
If things go wrong, So what? Learn what went wrong and think what you must do to set right. Failures and mistakes are great opportunities for learning.Thousands of people have prospered and turned around because of wrong decisions, mistakes and failures.
They have great lessons for us. To have friends, you have to be friendly, agreeable, fun to be sort of guy; not boring, toxic, emotional vampire, and negatively charged. You must be assertive, have a sense of humour and fun, be supportive, giving sort of guy and only then people will like you.
Your family thinks you are an attention seeker. Sit down and think why they think like this. Examine the facts, be frank with your appraisal of yourself, see the truth and then prove them wrong by changing your behaviour, communication, interactions and personality.
You must focus on the solutions now. Dont dwell on problems and try to dissect them and do a post-mortem, to find out why, what, how etc.; leave them alone. There are no problems with anything, except with the way we view it.
Hope this helps. Should you have any other query, do revert us between 11am-8pm or drop us an offline message.
Regards,
Expert Teentalk India