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Hello Teentalker,

Thanks for reaching out to us. From what you have shared, its getting clear that you would feel much better if you had some sense of direction on how you want to take your career forward. And with that, find some meaning and purpose in life that will make you feel fulfilled and happy with your state of affairs.

Regarding your support system- family and others, who tend to discourage you and makes you doubt your worth, I feel its best to address these to them. Tell them firmly but politely, how you feel when they behave this way towards you. I am unable to understand the exact reason why they are d.....

Hello Teentalker,

Thanks for reaching out to us. From what you have shared, its getting clear that you would feel much better if you had some sense of direction on how you want to take your career forward. And with that, find some meaning and purpose in life that will make you feel fulfilled and happy with your state of affairs.

Regarding your support system- family and others, who tend to discourage you and makes you doubt your worth, I feel its best to address these to them. Tell them firmly but politely, how you feel when they behave this way towards you. I am unable to understand the exact reason why they are doing this. Is it simply to put you down and feel good about it? Or, are they trying to get you motivated by working the reverse psychology, so that you feel more driven because of the hurt and embarrassment?

And also, its good to remind yourself that you always have an option to choose how you want things to be. So, whenever you make a choice, try to understand the consequences it can bring and be prepared for it, with the best of your abilities to manage them. For your reference, I am sharing a link of our article on 10 ways you can choose the life you want, kindly go through it:

https://www.teentalkindia.com/explore/body-image-selfesteem/10-ways-you-can-choose-the-life-you-want

Hope this helps. Should you have any other query, do revert us between 11am-8pm or drop us an offline message.

Regards,

Expert Teentalk India