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I have been very shy about sexuality since early days and have never really opened up to anyone about it.  Please help me.

Question: I have never actually had a long conversation with a girl, let alone date any. Needless to say, I'm a virgin, and paid sex is just too risky for me. I have been very shy about sexuality since early days and have never really opened up to anyone about it. The real problem is that because I keep my sexual frustration so bottled up in real life, I have to resort to excessive masturbation to release myself. I don't know how to break out of this cycle of porn, excessive self-abuse and then guilt. Please help me. Teentalker

Dear Teentalker,

Thanks for writing to us. I can really understand your frustration and the mental pressure you are having. You can come out of the vicious cycle that you have got into. You are still young and it is never too late to make friends.

 It is very important that you set some goals for yourself. Challenge yourself for a week and you will get rid of guilt and feel a bit better. Try healing your body, work on yourself on how you look, dress up well, smile at others in College, give attention to females. If this does not work for you in short term it will surely in long term.

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