Dear Teentalker,
It seems like you two care a great deal about each other, but sometimes due to the busy lives that you and everyone around you lives, it might seem like she doesn't have time for you or doesn't think you're important enough, though that might not be the case. It clearly seems like you like her a lot and she feels the same way, but somewhere along the way we also need to realize that being in a relationship does not mean that you put all other relationships on other things in life on hold. In fact, being in a healthy relationship means striking a balance between your romantic relationship along with ot.....
Dear Teentalker,
It seems like you two care a great deal about each other, but sometimes due to the busy lives that you and everyone around you lives, it might seem like she doesn't have time for you or doesn't think you're important enough, though that might not be the case. It clearly seems like you like her a lot and she feels the same way, but somewhere along the way we also need to realize that being in a relationship does not mean that you put all other relationships on other things in life on hold. In fact, being in a healthy relationship means striking a balance between your romantic relationship along with other personal and professional commitments.
If you're girlfriend is not able to give you time, then instead of getting upset, you might want to try and understand why is she doing that? Is it because of studies? Is it because of some other reason that she has not shared with you as yet? Sometimes, when honest communication is not happening, misunderstandings tend to crop up and then in times like these, you might start assuming the worst.
So, in order to help you manage your relationships well, I would recommend that you read this article on ' A super simple guide to relationships and their management' by clicking on the following link: https://www.teentalkindia.com/explore/relationships/a-super-simple-guide-to-relationships-and-their-management
In order to help you manage your time well and know when is it important to prioritize your relationship and when is it not important, please work on the tool
'Time Management Matrix' by clicking on the following link: https://www.teentalkindia.com/explore/academic-pressure
After going through all of this content, please try to talk to your girlfriend and let her know that you are willing to patch up and give each other the much needed time and space. If she is very angry and hurt, chances are she will initially say 'no' so in this case, you will have to work twice as hard to get her trust back, but if you reassure her that you are willing to understand her point of view and respect her decisions, then chances are, that things might work out for the better!
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