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My boyfriend wants to get physical and i don't feel ready.

Question : I’ve been dating this guy for a month. He’s popular and cool.. I like him but he wants to get more physical and I don’t feel ready for that. We made out a couple of times and I feel uncomfortable when he touches my body. I feel like there’s something wrong with me because my friends have gone to third base and I feel weird about it. Teentalker , 16-year-old

Dear Teentalker,

Let’s think about ice-cream for a minute. You like ice-cream. But you only like it in the summer. It’s now winter, and your boyfriend is eating ice-cream, and trying to force you to have some. But you don’t want it! You said no! Imagine if after you’ve said no, your boyfriend takes a spoon of ice-cream and forces it into your mouth. Isn’t that basic disrespect and disregard for your choices? 

Why is the ice-cream situation any different from this one? I’m not going to tiptoe around this, because it’s clear.....

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