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I often feel like a  looser in life. I tried to take control of life by marrying on my  own, but now not able to stay with any guy. I am unable to deal with loss and keep grieving. Please help.

Question: I often feel like a  looser in life. I tried to take control of life by marrying on my  own, but now not able to stay with any guy. Everyone rejects me for this and that reason.I tried to change myself for everyone, but failed. on face .I feel ashamed on doing so much mistakes in life. And i always feel I m worthless to be a partner. I have a strong hate for self and men. I just feel i have lost the life. Each day I wake up to change life, but get back on same trap of thinking. I am unable to deal with loss and keep grieving. Please help. Teentalker , 10-year-old

Dear Teentalker,

Thanks for writing to us. I can really understand your pain. 

From what you wrote, it seems like you have had some very bad experiences with people and life. I feel sorry for you because you are undergoing such trauma and pain in life. But remember one thing, not all men willl be bad nor all women will be good. There will be good and bad kind of people in each gender. If you remember this, then you will have clarity when dealing with people.

What I feel is you are dependent too much on others to make you happy. That is why so much of suffering. Happiness is something which must be ex.....

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