Dear Teentalker,
Thanks for writing to us. I can really understand your pain.
From what you wrote, it seems like you have had some very bad experiences with people and life. I feel sorry for you because you are undergoing such trauma and pain in life. But remember one thing, not all men willl be bad nor all women will be good. There will be good and bad kind of people in each gender. If you remember this, then you will have clarity when dealing with people.
What I feel is you are dependent too much on others to make you happy. That is why so much of suffering. Happiness is something which must be ex.....
Dear Teentalker,
Thanks for writing to us. I can really understand your pain.
From what you wrote, it seems like you have had some very bad experiences with people and life. I feel sorry for you because you are undergoing such trauma and pain in life. But remember one thing, not all men willl be bad nor all women will be good. There will be good and bad kind of people in each gender. If you remember this, then you will have clarity when dealing with people.
What I feel is you are dependent too much on others to make you happy. That is why so much of suffering. Happiness is something which must be experienced from inside of you. It is this inner joy feeling which gives you happiness. Determine from inside that you will keep yourself happy no matter what the outside situations and circumstances might be. Resolve to be happy and you will be happy.
Remember always you are not a looser. Its your thinking which makes you feel that way. No matter how many times you loose, don't give up. keep trying once more. Finally you will emerge as a winner. Also don't degrade yourself. Never put yourself down. Believe in yourself and also believe in God. Practice some spirituality. It will help. Pray to God for good health, wealth and happiness.
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Expert Teentalk India