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How to avoid playing blame game

Question: I often get into arguments with my friends and family. They always place blame for my failures and obstacles on others. I want to genuinely avoid this situation. Please offer some guidance. 

Dear Teentalker, 

Thank you for connecting with us. I can imagine that getting trapped in a blame game can be so unnerving and frustrating for you. It is not a dead end and there are ways of coping with such situations. 

All of us are flawed in some way or another. Often we find ways of defending ourselves and protecting our flaws from being evident, which may result in pushing us away from other people.

When it comes to placing blame in a relationship of any kind, it is usually simpler to hand it out to someone else instead of holding it on oneself. May it be a parent-child relationship.....

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