Dear Teentalker,
Thanks for reaching out and sharing your concern.
I can understand there will be lots of thoughts crossing your mind and you just want to find answers for the same. Obviously it hurts more when you are trying to be your best version and want to make everyone happy, but in the end, everything just backfires on you. You might be thinking that you are the reason for everything that's messed up.
Let me tell you that whatever happened is not at all your fault. You tried your best to make everyone happy but there might be some situations that you couldn't control and it is not righ.....
Dear Teentalker,
Thanks for reaching out and sharing your concern.
I can understand there will be lots of thoughts crossing your mind and you just want to find answers for the same. Obviously it hurts more when you are trying to be your best version and want to make everyone happy, but in the end, everything just backfires on you. You might be thinking that you are the reason for everything that's messed up.
Let me tell you that whatever happened is not at all your fault. You tried your best to make everyone happy but there might be some situations that you couldn't control and it is not right to blame yourself for that. Don't be too harsh on yourself. Give yourself the same importance that you give to other people in your life. Think about yourself as you think about others.
It is a good thing that you are thinking about others but it is also important to think about yourself. There is a saying that "You cannot pour from an empty cup, first take care of yourself." This simply means If you will be happy then only you can make others happy. Always remember self-care is the most important thing you can do for yourself.
Please go through these helpful links -
https://www.teentalkindia.com/toolbox/article/72
https://www.teentalkindia.com/explore/general/7-things-that-happy-people-do-differently
https://www.teentalkindia.com/explore/general/deal-with-your-emotions-smartly
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