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My batch mates have boycotted me and i have serious temper issues. What should I do?

Question:

I live in a boarding and my batch mates of boarding don't talk to me cause they are jealous of my achievements...they have boycotted me and I try my best to ignore them...One of them is very rude while talking and I feel like slaping her right there.. What should I do to get over this.I have serious anger issues and that was the reason I was not sorting ot with them but one day i controlled myself and that was of no use.The others agreed to stop all this but that girl said ki nahi hum log usse baat nahi karenge...how do i manage my temper?

Teentalker , 16-year-old

Dear Teentalker, 

Firsty, you should be proud of your achievements so a big congratulations and keep up the good work. Boarding school life can have it's own challenges.  Ignoring is one option as most people look for a reaction and by not giving it to them you win half the battle. Even if one is rude, always remember it's not about You. Most times, these people are dealing with their own challenges which tends to make them react in an unhealthy manner. If these batch mates are bullying and troubling you a lot, reach out to a trusted teacher/adult and shar.....

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