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Date rules to make your first date memorable

A fine first date can make all the difference. Explore out what to do on a date to make sure you have a perfect first date!

Dates can be a nerve-wracking thing, but they can also be really enjoyable. If you are going on a date with someone you are really fond of, then you’ll want to make a great impression on your first date. All you have to do is to plan a date that allows you to shine, have fun being yourself, and make an impression at the end of your date. If you’re wondering what to do on a date, there are quite a few points to keep in mind to ensure that both of you have unforgettable experiences:

 

Choose the right place

Selecting the perfect place for a first date can be tricky. At times, the perfect place warms up your date and take it to the next date, or it can end your date midway. The place you choose has a lot to do with your age and also your hopes out of your date. Like, cafes are perfect because you can evade the pressures of impressing or worrying about what to do if the date goes wrong, or worse, your date mate is just way too dull.

Dress appropriately

Dress depending on the location of the date, as well as what you plan on doing together. Girls honestly like it when guys dress formal (this may be a super idea if you plan on going on a dinner date).

Share more about yourself

During a date, it is very important that both individuals get a chance to tell more about themselves. This will make both of you more relaxed around each other, as well as help you decide if you want to take the relationship further or not. Don't be anxious! Tell about your family, your interests, even your classes as this is your chance to shine!

Be generous with your compliments

Praising not only shows that you are interested, but it also makes you feel so much more assured about yourself. Observe anything that's worthy of a compliment? Like you may say, "So I was looking at some of your Facebook pictures, and really liked this one!" Believe me, if he/she really likes you, he/she'll find it extremely cute.  Everybody loves to hear good things about themselves, especially from someone they’re out on a date with.

Be yourself

Now the most important tip of all: be yourself.  Remember, you want this girl/boy to fall in love with you. You'll probably feel very nervous throughout the date, but trust me, the other person probably feels the exact same way. Don’t try to influence your date by acting like you are someone you’re not. Not only that, but you’ll have a much better time if you’re able to relax and just be you. 

Watch out for your body language

Behaviors and etiquette aren’t just a way of letting the world know you know how to conduct yourself. It’s also your way of making your date know that you respect them. Watch out for your eye contact, try not to fidget, stand/sit straight, etc. It is important to remember that body language is not only a mirror image of your confidence but also a projection of your self-esteem.

Most of us don’t spend much time thinking about the first date. You just talk and hardly ever do something more than that. The very first date will decide the possible fate of the relationship and the rest of your life!

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6 traits girls look for in a perfect partner

Ever wondered what girls look for in a guy? Just like there are a few things about a woman that attracts you, they too have their own wish list in a guy they meet

Ultimately, what girls want is to stay. And boys want them to stay. Then, why are there so many breakups, even in relationships that appear all sunshine? If you’re single who is waiting for the woman of your dreams, here are a few tips that can help you attract her effortlessly:

Be Charming

'Prince Charming' wasn't titled just like that. A charming personality is everything, but yet it’s not something most boys have. Work on your body language around women plus learn your manners around them.  If you want to attract a girl, at first sight, you have to keep in mind that appearances do matter a lot.

Sense of humor

All girls know that a guy who is humorous can be a lot of fun over dates or phone calls. Have a light-hearted and fun approach in life and try to look at the bright side all the time. It takes a few moments for a girl to know if a guy has a good sense of humor while having a conversation with him.

Be Respectful

Girls like to be respected by the boy they like, but they also like being with a guy who’s respected by other people and if someone doesn’t respect you, try to get better. Treat others with respect and you’ll be treated with respect. They see kind men as good fathers, and it’s a trait that women instinctively like. 

Be Confident

Confidence is a must-have for any man. A confident man is far more attractive to a woman because he believes in himself and his abilities, and he doesn’t tuck tail and run in crisis.

Compatibility

You may be a great person, but at times both of you may just be way too incompatible for each other. She may like you, but she may not be willing to date you due to the reason of compatibility. If you want to avoid this, be pleasant and sincere, and most of all, look for her interests and learn about her likes - dislikes while talking to her so you know the right things to say.

Protective

No woman would ever let herself be frank and truly known by a man who didn’t make her feel safe. The protective nature of masculine energy is truly seductive which can often be felt, without any words spoken. This includes keeping her confidences, supporting her, and honoring her decisions– even if you can’t see how they’ll work out yet.

Women have many needs, complicated lives, and a world of resources today. They are looking for relationships that enrich their lives, and partners who can create a meaningful association on an ongoing basis. Possessing or nurturing these traits gives a man a shot at being a woman’s lifelong partner; the type of man with whom she re-calibrates the relationship, though many or all of the chapters of her life. What girls want is really to stay – so give them a reason to.

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