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बिना झिझके काउंसलर के पास जाएं

ऐसा समझा जाता है कि दिमागी तौर पर बीमार व्यक्ति को ही काउंसलर के पास जाने की जरूरत पड़ती है। अगर किसीको काउंसलर के पास जाते देख लिया तो मान लेते हैं कि जरूर कोई मेन्टल प्रॉब्लम होगी। आइए जानते हैं कि काउंसलर के पास जाने के क्या फायदे हैं -

काउंसलर के पास जाने के पीछे लोगों की कई गलत धारणाएं हैं, जैसे -  

कॉन्फिडेंस की कमी वालों को ही काउंसलिंग की जरूरत होती है -

कई स्किल्ड और हाई क्वालिफाइड लोग भी काउंसलर के पास जाते हैं। इसका यह मतलब नहीं कि वे कोई अजीब या अनोखे लोग हैं, बल्कि उनकी लाइफ में कुछ और प्रॉब्लम भी हो सकती है। हो सकता है कि वे उस टेंशन और डिफिकल्ट सिचुएशन को हैंडल करने में काउंसलर की मदद चाहते हों। ऐसा हम सबके साथ हो सकता है। 

काउंसलर हमारा फ्रैंड या फॅमिली मेंबर नहीं है

लोग सोचते हैं कि काउंसलर से अपनी प्रॉब्लम कैसे शेयर करें वे कोई हमारा फ्रैंड या फॅमिली मेंबर थोड़े ही न है। यह कहना सही है, आपके फ्रैंडस और फॅमिली मेंबर आप को कहेंगे कि ‘तुम्हे यह करना चाहिए’ या ‘तुम्हे यह नहीं करना चाहिए', जबकि काउंसलर आपकी सिचुएशन को एनालाइज करेगा और आपके लिए जो सही होगा उसके लिए आपको इनकरेज करेगा।

‘लोग क्या कहेंगे?’

ऐसा भी माना जाता है कि काउंसलिंग कमजोर दिमाग के लोगों की की जाती है। साथ ही हमारे दिमाग में यह भरा हुआ है कि ‘लोग क्या कहेंगे'। अगर हम काउंसलर के पास जाएंगे तो लोग पता नहीं क्या - क्या बातें बनाएंगे, इसलिए भी लोग काउंसलर से दूर भागते हैं।

 लड़के खासतौर से इमोशनल नहीं होते 

ज्यादातर लोग सोचते हैं कि बढ़ती उम्र के लड़के इमोशनली स्ट्रॉन्ग होते हैं और इसलिए उन्हें काउंसलर की जरूरत नहीं होती। वे अपनी प्रॉब्लम खुद ही सॉल्व करना चाहते हैं। लेकिन ऐसा नहीं है चाहे लड़के हों या लड़कियां, मैन हों या वुमन सभी को बराबरी से काउंसलिंग की जरूरत हो सकती है। रिस्पोन्सिबल लोग कई सारी रिस्पॉन्सिबिलिटीज़ और ड्युटीज निभाते हैं, तो आप सोचिये कि क्या वे टेंशन में नहीं आ जाते, ऐसे में उन्हें काउंसलर की जरूरत पड़ती ही है। इस बारे में एक बार फिर सोचकर देखिये।

काउंसलर आपकी इन्फॉर्मेशन को कॉन्फिडेंशल रखते हैं

एक बात आपको बता दें कि काउंसलर आपकी इन्फॉर्मेशन को कॉन्फिडेंशल रखते हैं  और वे आपको किसी भी प्रकार से मजबूर नहीं करते। तो अगली बार अगर आपको या किसी और को सही सलाह या काउंसलिंग की जरूरत महसूस होती है तो एक अच्छे काउंसलर के पास जाने में बिलकुल भी न झिझके।

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What Your Favourite Colour Says About You

We all have a favourite colour. Even those who say they don’t have any have a natural inclination towards few colours or family of colours. So what does our favourite colour says about us? Find Out here

Here is what your favourite colour says about you.

Blue

Serene and Cool.

You have the ability to find peace. You are reliable and are easy to get along with. You like to keep things tidy and find stability as the most important aspect of your life.

Black

Artistic, moody and sophisticated.

You tend to be someone with a need for control. You are also artistic and though not an introvert, you are careful of the details of your life and do not share them with others easily.

White

Innocent.

You are mostly organized and logical and don't have a great deal of clutter in your life. Also you are diligent in your appearance.

Red

Bold, determined and strong

Colour of the extroverts, red is also found to be the more attention grabbing colour of all. If your fav colour is red you believe in living life to the fullest and are persistent and determined in your approach.

Green

Affectionate, loyal, frank and social butterfly.

Liking colour green has nothing to do with love of nature. So if you like green colour you have a desperate want to feel secure in your relationships and finances. You want to be seen as wealthy, successful and important person in others views.

Brown

Simple, comfortable and looking for stability.

You have no need for extravagance. You want to live a complication-free life. You're also reliable, frugal and direct. Being spur of the moment is just not in your personality.

Purple

Artistic and unique in your own way. 

You are mysterious and different. You like to see the world in a way that can be difficult for those around you. You do have great respect for people but can be arrogant at times.

Orange

Friendly, easy going and flamboyant

If your favourite is orange then you do not have too many serious thoughts. You want to be the center of attention and are always full of energy.

Pink

Naive, sheltered, and have delicate sensibilities.

Those who favour pink do so because it's an escape from the reality of impending adulthood. They're childlike in the way they interact with others, and hope to be able to pull off red, pink's older sister, when they finally grow up ― failing to realize they've been an adult for a long time now.

Yellow

Optimistic and idealist.

Because of this optimism, and the idealism that comes along with it, people who love yellow sometimes come off as whacky or aloof, but that's just because the other are straight-up jealous. You enjoy learning and sharing your knowledge with others.  Finding happiness comes easy to you and others would compare you to sunshine

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