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How to impress that someone special

Admit it or not, we all that someone special whom we want to woo over us. It’s nothing new and nothing wrong for us to try to impress someone, as far as that special someone is the ‘one’.

Have you ever discussed with your bestie whether he/she knows what the tactics to impress someone are? Probably not. Because we don’t want to acknowledge the fact that there is someone who means that much to us that we’d do things to please him/her. But that doesn’t change the reality. And we all, at some point of time or other, wish to influence someone.

So let’s get started on how to do that.

Know your speciality

We all have some special skill in us. And when you are good at something, people tend to notice and appreciate it. You have to find what you’re good at, not what you want to be at or what he/she is good at, but something that’s naturally there in you. It could be singing, cooking, gardening or anything under the sun. Just make sure it’s all natural and you display it in front of them in a subtle manner. Afterall you want to impress and not give complex.

Be yourself

Try to be the real version of you. Don’t fake to be someone you’re not just because you think he/she might like it. Be confident and let it show in your body language too. Be upfront and honest about who you are, your likes, dislikes, friends, weaknesses etc.

Watch what you’re wearing

Answer this question; would you like a guy/girl who is always wearing loose, baggy or same kind of clothes? No, ofcourse not. This doesn’t mean you have to go all the way out and dress like a rockstar all the time. Wear nice fitting, cleaned and ironed clothes and don’t stick to a certain style, keep changing it.

Smell good

We all are attracted towards good fragrances. Fragrance is an excellent way to get noticed and registered in the minds of people. Though it shouldn’t be too strong to handle or it will give you and him/her a headache too. Wear a subtle perfume. Boys should choose notes of musk, citrus or aqua and girls should go for the notes of amber, flower or fruity.

Let them know you like them

This is hard for many, especially girls. When you have that someone around you and you have all the butterflies of the world in your stomach, it’s gets easy to goof things up. On the other hand you also don’t have to throw yourself at him/her. Wear a smile and be gentle and show that you have a soft corner for him/her. Show concern and affection for him/her in a way he/she notices it and knows that you aren’t like this to everyone else.

Remember the fact that you might be able to impress someone special of your life. But before that make sure he/she is worth it and more importantly is not seeing someone else. If so, then move on and acknowledge that your Miss/Mr. Perfect is still waiting to get impressed by you or who knows he/she might already be.

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When it comes to visiting a counselor, we feel only people with some mental illness needs a counselor. Or if someone has seen a counselor that means he/she has some mental issues.

There are so many misconceptions when it comes to counselling or counselor. Like only ‘crazy’ people go to a counselor or psychologists themselves are ‘strange’, ‘weird’ people. However, all this may not be true. So here we are with some myth busters about counselling.

Only crazy people need counselling

Many mentally stable, bright and skilled people also take counselling. Not because they are crazy but they know they have a specific problem area in life and they want to deal with it. They might be stresses or dealing with a difficult situation in life, which happens to all of us.

Counselor is not family or friend

People often think that how can a counselor, who hardly know them, help them? The truth is that’s exactly what you need. Your friends and family tell you what you should do or not do but a counselor helps you analyze the situation and encourage to find the suitable answer for you.

What will people say?

A major setback of our mindset is the question ‘what will people say?’ As the common misconception is that counselling is for mentally ill people, we assume that if we see a counselor, people would start thinking of us as crazy. Contrarily, if such people were to see a counselor, they’d never be able to do so due to lack of courage.

‘Men’ aren’t emotional hence don’t need a counselor

We tend to think that men or grown up boys are more emotionally strong and therefore don’t need a counselor. This belief also gives space to the thought that men can handle their own problems themselves, they don’t need anyone else to do this. Men are as equally in need of counselling as women. Think of all the responsibilities and duties men have over them, do you think they don’t get stressed out at all? Well, think about it twice.

Also, you should know that all counselors maintain your information as confidential. And no they don’t hypnotise you at all, so next time you feel you or anyone you know needs certain help, feel free to contact a good counselor.

 

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